Tools for Developing Positive Masculinity Embrace the power of masculinity and embrace your true self. Revel in the bold qualities that define you, such as fearlessness and determination. Treasure the attributes that make you a unique man, such as confidence and ambition. Recognize that embracing masculinity does not mean disregarding other identities in your life; rather, it is about finding a balance between your masculine essence and your other roles and responsibilities. Welcome the challenges that come with being a man, and embrace the growth and self-growth that arise from them.